"Accelerant"

Accelerant: a substance or catalyst used to;
1. To increase the speed of.
2. To cause to occur sooner than expected.
3. To cause to develop or progress more quickly: a substance used to accelerate a fire.
4 .

a. To reduce the time required for (an academic course, for example); compress into a shorter period.
b. To make it possible for (a student) to finish an academic course faster than usual.
5. Physics. To change the velocity of.

Setting around the table, a chill in the air; the open fire place could just not keep up with the drafts of the log structure we fondly called “the Chalet”; all of us fully charged with possibilities. This was a meeting of some unusual individuals. Ordinary by all accounts of the typical world we live in; different because they came to take stock of what had been and dream of what might be. You can find a variety of them any given fall gathering for an intensive week of leadership development in the wilds of Canada. We had come early, a think tank of sorts to map out future possibilities of life, individually and for this undefined group whose face changed yearly with the many needs of life we all find. These were good times; anticipation of the physical challenges that waited in the journey, as well as new faces to match with familiar souls. Though many had never met, all carried a common thread; the desire for change, for transformation of their lives and those they knew and were yet to know.

Laughing and joking about our different exploits and adventures in this setting and our personal lives you could sense the dynamic growing. We were on the verge of new heights you could feel it! Late into the night we talked and laughed when a comment by an individual stopped my brain abruptly. Trading leadership experiences, laughing at our own catastrophes someone commented to him and me “You two are catalysts for disaster!” His reply grasped my soul! “Catalyst?” he said. “I’m not a catalyst, I’m an accelerant! Catalysts only start the reaction, I not only start it, I speed it up exponentially!” Wow!

That’s it! In life I just don’t want to start the change in people’s lives I want to accelerate it! It is my passion to see individuals understand their design and see the possibilities for application and then act on it.

Let me start with you the reader! What are your skills and abilities; your passions and desires? What are your Dreams? Can you identify them; can you remember them? What time are you investing in them? What are you investing in? Start your list; identify your dreams, invest a few hours in it this week! Read, exercise, spend some time with your family, and spend some time nurturing your soul! Invest some time in your success! Then let me know how you’re doing, what you’re doing and what your challenges are! You can help me accelerate my own life and dreams!

Seeds of Kindness

The sun was warm, the air on; I was tired as I neared my home. It had been a long day! Seventy miles east and then back dropping off a son at college; now four hours of drive time to the north and back to help another son retrieve his "ride" that was there for repairs.

Watching approaching traffic as I neared my turn off, I passed a local police cruiser headed in the opposite direction. Now seeing his brake lights and hasty "U" turn I was not only tired but sick. Looking down at my speed;.he had me! Ouch!

I muttered to myself as the officer approached and I retrieved all the necessary information to hand him; "Lord you know I don't need this ticket but you're in charge"; resolved to take it like a man, window down, I waited.

"Sir, license and registration please. I had you going ...." I looked up. "You"; he said. "Hello" I replied. Apologetically, I explained my day and inattentive speed, handing him my information.

For a number of years now I've taught as a substitute in our district, mostly in the high school. I like rubbing elbows with people in that stage of life. Ever watch how many adults treat and respond to youth; those insolent, brash, self directed, full of life and unrestraint, those teenagers? Like I said, I like them! I've made it a practice due to my own awareness, to offer a lot of kindness and respect to students. My own time vested during those years has taught me much; but that's another story! Addressing them with Mr. or Miss., involving myself not just in the subject of the hour to be delivered, but in their needs of the day, just a little kindness and concern, never spending time with most outside the class room or hallways. They respond even in times of correction, which were often with some, in a reciprocal manner. I see them in stores or on the street, across parking lots, and they beam with recognition, even across a crowded store, greeting me with smiles and warm hellos!

The face of the officer looking in my window was one of those former students! "Any arrests or warrants?" He chuckled moving to his cruiser. Waiting for his return seemed like an eternity! Handing my information back he said; "you're clean! Have a good day Mr. ....!" "Thanks", I replied. "I will and I will watch my speed!" No Ticket, Yes! Can you imagine the scenario though deserved had "Seeds" of kindness not been my choice with he or other students? Now he the authority and I the underling it could be ugly! Retribution is a painful bill to pay!

Never in my dreams did I imagine as I interacted in the schools and class rooms that I would face a moment like this. I didnt plan for it or measure my responses based on role reversal in the future. Being kind and planting seeds of kindness produces a harvest that is reaped when least expected! Plant some even with that unbearable client! It is right and it works! Some where I believe there is an axiom, "treat others as you would be treated"; somewhere I think I've read this.

Want some mercy and kindness? Hand it out liberally! A speeding ticket is incidental, changing lives our calling!

What Do You Want To Be When You Grow Up?

As a little boy I was captivated by bigger than life hero’s: “The Lone Ranger”, “Superman” and “Roy Rogers”. I wanted to be, a “singing Cowboy!” I wanted to ride the strongest, smartest, horse , be the fastest gun, take out bad guys with one punch, be unbelievably shrewd with “smarts” to spare, always ready and able to save the day; especially the damsel in distress. My story would always end with a song in the saddle, and a girl watching me ride away; a smile on her lips and a tear on her cheek! (Happy Trails to you) I wanted to leap tall buildings in a single bound, be more powerful than a locomotive, and faster than a speeding bullet.

About this time our culture and academic elite became infatuated with “the noble savage” giving credibility to the animistic lifestyle of natives in history and untouched peoples. I quickly signed up! Having read the classic story, “My side of the Mountain”, I was ready to find a cool Indian name, live off the land, let my hair grow, become an expert with the long bow, hatchet and knife, make fire with sticks and stones, ride bareback through the world, while hunting down dinner and criminals with my always fast unbelievable horse utilizing the skills of my golden eagle trained by me from a hatchling, and of course, saving the day, the world and the damsel in distress. Wasn’t much for the native lyrics and melodies though!

Then the world, my world, changed; on a Friday night, I met the “Green Hornet”. Kato his side kick (alias Bruce Lee) was the man! I would be the next “Karate King” ….still singing, the music still there; after all there is only one King! You know what I mean baby?! Thank you, thank very much! ("Viva Las Vegas")

Given the rage of the Cartoon world and comic books; (yes I read them!) with guys like “Iron Man, Spiderman, and Dare- Devil etc…. I wanted to be, A singing Cowboy with a voice like Elvis, a physique like superman, skilled like a savage driven by justice, able to dispatch all evil and enemies that may threaten my loved ones and world, with my superhuman martial art skills, and of course saving the girl!

You know what? I still haven’t found that job. There isn’t much of a market for that; except in the world of make believe and movies! I must admit my sense of self was clouded and affected by the early days of Hollywood. Fortunately there was still a strong moral base in our world then, though it was fading fast and more residual than anything; it at least fed and moved me toward a sort of decency. While all these things are filled with so many false primacies on life and living, each of them held something that resonated within me. They tended to electrify the hard wiring in my life. I love: adventure, an element of danger, being a help, coming along side of people, testing my “metal” and the outdoors. I am loyal to a fault, a romantic and a gentleman. I still long to do great things, not satisfied with status quo I tend to ask “why” a lot and have a sense of justice that will not quit, always on a quest for truth!

Each of us is born with innate desires and a skill set to be honed and used. They are the things our dreams are made of; our design! As a result we are naturally drawn to certain lifestyles and things. How are you wired? What were you meant to do? What things resonate in your core?
This is a pivotal point for all. It is here that in an effort to answer these innate drives and passions many of us head down the wrong path looking in the wrong places to fulfill our hardwiring; many times conforming to a certain image or path. For some their effort destroying the very thing they seek; life, happiness and fulfillment.

Take heart it was never suppose to be that way and it doesn’t have to be now! What is it that sets your natural timbre to ringing? What things cause you to feel most alive? It’s never too late to start the process of discovery, too live life knowing you are “centered” answering the call of your life, soul and creator.

Life to the Max; HAPPY EASTER"

Standing in front of the refrigerator I’ve opened for the 10th time in the last seven minutes; I’ve tasted everything it offers that might appeal to me and now full, I’m still hungry, I’m still not satisfied.

Designed for greatness, marred and limited both by our own nature and choice; we look throughout our days for help, direction and hope, sometimes rescue. Left to ourselves, we drift, struggling to find our center and niche; that one thing that offers fulfillment and meaning to our existence and lives. Continually standing in front of the “refrigerator of life” tasting anything of interest, nothing satiates the deep hunger or our souls. We are full but not satisfied.

Easter is as much about the restoration of our own lives to their original design and intent, as it is to the reconciliation of the relationship with our Creator and God. (So many people limit their understanding of Easter, to a religious experience meant to offer heaven, confined to holidays and structured liturgy for certain hours and times of the week organized and controlled only by professionals.) In fact, it is in that reconciled relationship the reality of our design becomes viable! In a day when so many are looking for meaning and answers are you offering more than just “pie in the sky” are you offering the tangible “now”, that truly satisfies?

Don’t get me wrong I want heaven and all it represents! In this season as we contemplate the gift of Christ’s sacrifice and His resurrection know this; His payment of our debt for failed lives and mutated natures, offers transformation, not only of a broken relationship with God himself, but of ourselves. We are “born again” to fulfill the hunger of our souls. It was God’s design, it is our destiny. His amazing gift is the source, His Spirit; our resource. Our lives, their desire, design and response; the results, “the now”!

Christ’s sacrifice and victory offers access to the mind of the creator, and life to the maximum! It truly is a position of “under stated and over delivered”! I hope you are celebrating it, this season especially and doing all you can to thrive in it, daily delivering it to all you touch!

Have a Blessed Easter!